one long ass confusing dream

ok - it starts with me and my daughter in the kitchen, which resembles my grandmom's house. My daughter who is about 3 is running around the house and she has this crazy hairdo. I had not talked to my boyfriend/husband (not sure) in about a week so I thought we were over, done, when suddenly he comes barging thru the door with an entourage - mostly dirty hooligan friends of his This man, my husband, is african american and very dingy looking. He and his friends approach me in a theatrical manner like the jets and the sharks - they are holding corn on the cob like a weapon. They grab our daughter and set the house on fire. They attach me to a bunch of thick rope tied to large balloons and let me go - i fly into the sky and watch my house burn. I am crying. I eventually land in some strange park that I have never seen before. I find a police office working a security stand in the park and approach him. I say, "this is going to sound really strange, but" and he replies "what sara?". this freaks me out because i don't understand how he knows me. then i explain what happened to me, but nothing comes of it---or at least i don't remember what happened next. the next part i remember is wondering through the park and then i see these large black boxes - like 30 ft tall. I listen in to others' conversations and learn that channel 10 (NBC) is setting up a live broadcast for something. i wind my way through the black structures and come upon my mother in lay and wife. Marina (m in-law) is wearing all red like the rest of the people she is standing near. they are apparently at the starting line of a dog race because they are all holding dogs and she has reina (her beagle) by the collar. the race starts and reina takes off like a bullet down to sabrina and wins the race. next i am with my father and kristina and we are trying to get to the other side of this barrier. it's made of three swimming lanes of freezing water, and four lanes of ice surrounding the water. i eventually get across and i wake up.

Fire
Fire is a symbol of transformation. Like the phoenix that rises from the ashes your relationship, the dream foretells, will be taking a turn for the better. It will bloom again.